Bring Cheer in Relationships

Vandana

My main problem of my fibromyalgia (nerves pain due to stress) and that is because of my not having a good relationship with my husband.

But I have discussed each and everything with my husband how we can make our relationship better. He will always tell that he will improve. But, he has never done anything about it.

I am a very honest person, get attached very easily and do everything for others with full heart. But, my husband loves to show off. He spends money on me to show others and my children that he is a very caring husband and loves me a lot.

Because of his nature, I am totally broke. I can’t believe him anymore. He is very selfish and only cares about him. He has no interest in me.

I just have dragged this marriage because of my kids. My boys are 19 and 17. They also understand that our relationship is not good. My kids also tell me to try to be happy and stay busy.

To keep myself happy, I am trying to keep myself busy in so many things, I have started business as well. But, whatever I am doing my husband has no interest in it.

I am trying to detach myself from him also but it’s really difficult, I don’t know, what to do, but still I want true love from him.

Naran

What is needed for you to change yourself to him? You only want him.

Ask yourself what is preventing you from getting his love?

Are you blaming within (for your problems)?

What about your judgmental attitude (about yourself) within?

What is in you that is preventing you from getting his love and affection?

Is it your desire to change him?

What is in you that has caused his rejection?

What is in you that has attracted this unloving person (in your life)?

Reflecting on your thoughts and behavior will make you understand your life better.

What do you need to change in yourself?

Did you not anytime ACT (put up a show) anywhere with anybody in the past?

What is that which is hidden in you? What all you had hidden from your parents in your past?

How much love you have for others? Scale each and every love you gave to others? Is it not different with different people?

Reflect.

Chant (gem remedy) PEARL as many times as possible

Vandana

I have never acted with my own people, whether they are my parents, sisters, brothers, or close friends.

I am always honest with them. I don’t lie as well.

I don’t believe in changing people, I accept everybody as they are.

My only problem is I have expectations on my husband so that we can make our married life better, by spending more time with each other,

He has all the enthusiasm when he meets others. He entertains them like anything but at home he didn’t want to do anything.

He likes parties so I arrange for him, but if I like to spend time with him he should also take some effort for that.

I won’t say he doesn’t love me, but there is no effort in making our lives and relationship cheerful.

Naran

Chant “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW”

Explanation

The Gem remedy PEARL will develop the motherliness in you, which attract people towards you.

The switch words “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW” is so powerful that it will bring tremendous change in you, which in turn will bring the results you want.

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Kill Your Debts

Blue Sapphire emits violet color.

Restriction is the key word. To check, to control, to limit and to restrict are some of the expressions where the Gem Remedy Blue Sapphire is required.

To come out of debts

If a person is in debt continuously then give them Blue Sapphire and it will restrict their loan or debt.

If you want to earn more and more Yellow Sapphire is to be given.

That is whenever a person tells that he is in debts you have to give Blue Sapphire to restrict the debts.

Restrict your straying son

If someone says that his son is not staying at home he is always on the move then give him Blue Sapphire.

Tooth care

For any tooth or gum problems give Blue Sapphire. After brushing the teeth daily in the morning one can gargle with Blue Sapphire water.

For all tooth extraction cases, Blue Sapphire must be definitely taken. When there is tooth problem it shows that our Saturn is weak. So we have to take Blue Sapphire. For all dentists violet energy is more. It means the Saturn is strong for them

Master of Recovery

Ruby

For any recovery Ruby is the remedy. Let us say, to recover from loss incurred in a business and start a new business.

To recover from severe fever or any illness Ruby is the remedy. Recovery is speeded up if Ruby is taken.

I have given Ruby to lot of singers during the music and festival seasons, and throughout the day they are able to retain their stamina, even after a heavy singing. To retain the stamina and vigor Ruby is the remedy.

Have a great authority and control

Have a great authority at office and home. Ruby will help you to be an authoritative person.

To get respect from others Ruby is the remedy.

There are certain people who are always controlling you and you will be always controlled. Then take Ruby.

For any divorce proceedings Ruby is to be taken. If one feels that he has to cut off from that person, he has to take Ruby

Please note here that these remedies function only as energy shifters.

 “He was forced to be away from his family”, a case history

Most of us go and buy gem stones for wearing. For one of my cousins, the Gem shop owner gave Ruby as sun period is there for my cousin, for a period of seven years. He started wearing the Ruby stone.

Within a month, he was transferred out of Chennai, to Bangalore. He could not come back to Chennai for more than one year. Finally he has to resign his job and come back to Chennai.

After he came back he met me and I told him to remove the stone. Immediately after that he got another job in Chennai and started living happily with his family.

Get your work done

If you are facing a big problem then take Ruby so that you will start acting and find the right solution.

You can take Ruby when you go to government offices to get your work done. In addition, take the Bach Flower remedies WATER VIOLET, ROCK WATER, LARCH, GENTIAN and WILD ROSE.

So these remedies are also natural remedies and work for only specific purposes. However, Diamond can be worn by all.

Taking Care of Your Children

Protection from Cold

Ruby, Pearl: if given regularly children will not get cold. Give these remedies after an attack of cold too.

Running nose

(Bach Flower Remedies) Sweet Chestnut, Walnut, Crab Apple, and (Gem Remedy) Yellow Sapphire

For immunity

Ruby and Pearl

Win competition

Yellow Sapphire, Coral

Children to listen to you

Son or daughter problem with mother; son to come to terms with you and if you want children to listen to you: take Pearl (or pray to moon) and Yellow Sapphire pills. If the child is not listening then it shows there is less motherliness in you. Take Pearl and develop your motherliness.

To increase the memory power of children

Emerald

The son doesn’t stay at home

Blue Sapphire

The Mother’s Care

Naran

Though, PEARL looks white in color, the color emitted by it is orange.

Pearl represents the mind. It also represents the mother (inside us). If children does not listen to the parents means that the motherliness is less in us. So to improve the motherliness we have to take Pearl (remedy).

Pregnancy and Foetus Care

For infertility, Pearl works very well. But before that all your physiological problems has to be addressed first.

For easy and normal delivery of the baby, give Diamond, Yellow sapphire and Pearl. During the last three days before the delivery, Ruby has to be given. Do not give Ruby earlier because it will break the pregnancy, as the key word of Ruby is “Break”.

If the child has to grow well, give Diamond, Yellow Sapphire and Pearl, which will make the development of the foetus well. This combination can be given throughout the pregnancy.

When you are visiting the doctor for Gynecological problems take Pearl. Along with Pearl you can also take Emerald. Then, the doctor will diagnose rightly.

Relationship Care

To have a good relationship with your spouse, Pearl is the remedy.  To improve the relationship along with Pearl we have to take Yellow Sapphire (Jupiter) pills too.

Self-Care

If you find unenthusiastic take Pearl.

The oratorical skill can be developed very easily with Pearl.

To become popular you can take Pearl.

Creativity can be improved very easily with Pearl.

Health Care

Whenever there is severe throat problem you can take Pearl.

When there is fever too, Pearl can be given. When the temperature of the patient rises, if we give Pearl (pills or water) to the patient, then the temperature will come down.

When we have a constipation problem then our colon and intestine will be dry. Pearl can be very effective here as it increases the water element of the body. Thus, dryness is taken care of and the patient is able to pass the motion easily.

It is also very good for acidity and burning sensation in the stomach.

For piles, you have to add Red Coral to Pearl.

Do this, before you visit doctors

Before going to a physician

Ruby (Sun – red), Yellow Sapphire (Jupiter – blue) and Emerald (Mercury – green)

Before visiting a general physician

Ruby and Emerald

When you visit a child specialist

Yellow Sapphire and Pearl

Before going to a dentist

Blue Sapphire and the Bach Flower Remedy Mimulus (for fear)

If you want to use gems, pray to Saturn and go to dentist. He will do a quick job and a thorough job. Saturn is very important for teeth.

Alternatively, chant Blue Sapphire (Saturn is represented by it) or take pills of Blue Sapphire or chant Om Sanaicharaya Namaha (mantra for God Saturn) and (Bach Flower Remedy) Mimulus pills – for fear.

Before meeting an ENT specialist

Ruby and Emerald

Appointment with an eye doctor

Take Diamond pills, so you will be diagnosed properly.

Why?  When I have an eye problem, my indigo is less.

Surgery was suggested to you. You would like to have a successful surgery.

Ruby (Sun) and Coral (Mars)

Fix Your Pains and Aches

Knee problem

Nine Gems and Yellow Sapphire

Knees are connected with parents – Left knee for mother and right knee for father. If you a have a knee problem it may mean that you may have a conflict with your parent or repeating the mistakes of the parent. Whenever you have a knee problem, prostrate mentally to your father and mother and say thanks to them.

All types of headache except for headaches created by your better-half J

Blue Sapphire

Lower back pain

Nine Gems and Yellow Sapphire

During movement you get a joint pain

Coral, Yellow sapphire and Nine Gems

Joints aid

(Bach Flower Remedies) Rock Water, Hornbeam, Walnut, Cherry plum, as well as (Gem Remedies) Coral and Diamond

Joints problem

Like for example, shoulder joints and knee joints: Yellow Sapphire and Nine Gems.

For correcting the eye and for any bone disorders

Diamond

Tooth problem or gum issues

Gargle with water filled with Blue Sapphire pills, after brushing your teeth. Every time you brush use it. To remove the teeth it is a must. Violet gets depleted when teeth are not doing well. Blue Sapphire will increase the violet color in you.

Heal your body with Gem Remedies

Basic remedy for any medical complaint

Sun (Ruby)

Vitality, Blood Circulation

Ruby

To retain your stamina and vigor

Ruby

General tonic

Nine gems

Chakra Balancing

Nine gems will balance all chakras, harmonizes the functioning of them

Nervous weakness

Emerald, Coral

Good digestion

Emerald, Ruby

Gas problem

Emerald

Constipation

Pearl is very effective. It increases the water element in the body. The intestine will be dry, if you are having constipation. Water element is increased by Pearl. Dryness is taken care of by Pearl’s water element.

Combine it with Coral.  The coral moves the bowels well.

Loose motion (Diarrhea)

Blue sapphire.  Combine with Bach flowers: White chestnut, Cherry plum

Acidity problems

When you have a burning sensation in the stomach, especially after eating pickles, then take Pearl pills. It is also good for acidity problems.

Fever

Pearl and IBGO (a combination of Diamond, Yellow Sapphire, Emerald and Pearl)

Pearl will reduce the temperature even if it seems to be rising.

Fever didn’t stop

Nine gems

After fever, a person feels dull

Recovery will be speeded up, if Ruby is taken. Even two pills will do.

Heal your Family Life through Gem Remedies

When marriage is delayed

Coral

Infertility

Pearl and Nine Gems

Have a picture of Rabbit in the couple’s bedroom.

Become pregnant

Pearl it is very helpful.

Easy and normal delivery

1.       Diamond, Yellow Sapphire and Pearl: this combination makes the foetus grow well. Right through pregnancy this can be given.

2.       During the last three days of delivery, Ruby has to be given.

3.       Chant “Together Divine Yellow Sapphire”

Heal extra marital affairs

Chicory, Clematis, Crab Apple, (gem remedy) Coral

Have a good relationship with your husband,

Pearl and Emerald are the remedies. Even Yellow Sapphire has to be taken.

For any divorce proceedings

Ruby is essential. You have the thought, “I don’t want to face him”. They won’t come to you again. You will get separated easily.