My main problem of my fibromyalgia (nerves pain due to stress) and that is because of my not having a good relationship with my husband.
But I have discussed each and everything with my husband how we can make our relationship better. He will always tell that he will improve. But, he has never done anything about it.
I am a very honest person, get attached very easily and do everything for others with full heart. But, my husband loves to show off. He spends money on me to show others and my children that he is a very caring husband and loves me a lot.
Because of his nature, I am totally broke. I can’t believe him anymore. He is very selfish and only cares about him. He has no interest in me.
I just have dragged this marriage because of my kids. My boys are 19 and 17. They also understand that our relationship is not good. My kids also tell me to try to be happy and stay busy.
To keep myself happy, I am trying to keep myself busy in so many things, I have started business as well. But, whatever I am doing my husband has no interest in it.
I am trying to detach myself from him also but it’s really difficult, I don’t know, what to do, but still I want true love from him.
What is needed for you to change yourself to him? You only want him.
Ask yourself what is preventing you from getting his love?
Are you blaming within (for your problems)?
What about your judgmental attitude (about yourself) within?
What is in you that is preventing you from getting his love and affection?
Is it your desire to change him?
What is in you that has caused his rejection?
What is in you that has attracted this unloving person (in your life)?
Reflecting on your thoughts and behavior will make you understand your life better.
What do you need to change in yourself?
Did you not anytime ACT (put up a show) anywhere with anybody in the past?
What is that which is hidden in you? What all you had hidden from your parents in your past?
How much love you have for others? Scale each and every love you gave to others? Is it not different with different people?
Chant (gem remedy) PEARL as many times as possible
I have never acted with my own people, whether they are my parents, sisters, brothers, or close friends.
I am always honest with them. I don’t lie as well.
I don’t believe in changing people, I accept everybody as they are.
My only problem is I have expectations on my husband so that we can make our married life better, by spending more time with each other,
He has all the enthusiasm when he meets others. He entertains them like anything but at home he didn’t want to do anything.
He likes parties so I arrange for him, but if I like to spend time with him he should also take some effort for that.
I won’t say he doesn’t love me, but there is no effort in making our lives and relationship cheerful.
Chant “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW”
The Gem remedy PEARL will develop the motherliness in you, which attract people towards you.
The switch words “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW” is so powerful that it will bring tremendous change in you, which in turn will bring the results you want.
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Protection from Cold
Ruby, Pearl: if given regularly children will not get cold. Give these remedies after an attack of cold too.
(Bach Flower Remedies) Sweet Chestnut, Walnut, Crab Apple, and (Gem Remedy) Yellow Sapphire
Ruby and Pearl
Yellow Sapphire, Coral
Children to listen to you
Son or daughter problem with mother; son to come to terms with you and if you want children to listen to you: take Pearl (or pray to moon) and Yellow Sapphire pills. If the child is not listening then it shows there is less motherliness in you. Take Pearl and develop your motherliness.
To increase the memory power of children
The son doesn’t stay at home
Though, PEARL looks white in color, the color emitted by it is orange.
Pearl represents the mind. It also represents the mother (inside us). If children does not listen to the parents means that the motherliness is less in us. So to improve the motherliness we have to take Pearl (remedy).
Pregnancy and Foetus Care
For infertility, Pearl works very well. But before that all your physiological problems has to be addressed first.
For easy and normal delivery of the baby, give Diamond, Yellow sapphire and Pearl. During the last three days before the delivery, Ruby has to be given. Do not give Ruby earlier because it will break the pregnancy, as the key word of Ruby is “Break”.
If the child has to grow well, give Diamond, Yellow Sapphire and Pearl, which will make the development of the foetus well. This combination can be given throughout the pregnancy.
When you are visiting the doctor for Gynecological problems take Pearl. Along with Pearl you can also take Emerald. Then, the doctor will diagnose rightly.
To have a good relationship with your spouse, Pearl is the remedy. To improve the relationship along with Pearl we have to take Yellow Sapphire (Jupiter) pills too.
If you find unenthusiastic take Pearl.
The oratorical skill can be developed very easily with Pearl.
To become popular you can take Pearl.
Creativity can be improved very easily with Pearl.
Whenever there is severe throat problem you can take Pearl.
When there is fever too, Pearl can be given. When the temperature of the patient rises, if we give Pearl (pills or water) to the patient, then the temperature will come down.
When we have a constipation problem then our colon and intestine will be dry. Pearl can be very effective here as it increases the water element of the body. Thus, dryness is taken care of and the patient is able to pass the motion easily.
It is also very good for acidity and burning sensation in the stomach.
For piles, you have to add Red Coral to Pearl.
Before going to a physician
Ruby (Sun – red), Yellow Sapphire (Jupiter – blue) and Emerald (Mercury – green)
Before visiting a general physician
Ruby and Emerald
When you visit a child specialist
Yellow Sapphire and Pearl
Before going to a dentist
Blue Sapphire and the Bach Flower Remedy Mimulus (for fear)
If you want to use gems, pray to Saturn and go to dentist. He will do a quick job and a thorough job. Saturn is very important for teeth.
Alternatively, chant Blue Sapphire (Saturn is represented by it) or take pills of Blue Sapphire or chant Om Sanaicharaya Namaha (mantra for God Saturn) and (Bach Flower Remedy) Mimulus pills – for fear.
Before meeting an ENT specialist
Ruby and Emerald
Appointment with an eye doctor
Take Diamond pills, so you will be diagnosed properly.
Why? When I have an eye problem, my indigo is less.
Surgery was suggested to you. You would like to have a successful surgery.
Ruby (Sun) and Coral (Mars)
Nine Gems and Yellow Sapphire
Knees are connected with parents – Left knee for mother and right knee for father. If you a have a knee problem it may mean that you may have a conflict with your parent or repeating the mistakes of the parent. Whenever you have a knee problem, prostrate mentally to your father and mother and say thanks to them.
All types of headache except for headaches created by your better-half J
Lower back pain
Nine Gems and Yellow Sapphire
During movement you get a joint pain
Coral, Yellow sapphire and Nine Gems
(Bach Flower Remedies) Rock Water, Hornbeam, Walnut, Cherry plum, as well as (Gem Remedies) Coral and Diamond
Like for example, shoulder joints and knee joints: Yellow Sapphire and Nine Gems.
For correcting the eye and for any bone disorders
Tooth problem or gum issues
Gargle with water filled with Blue Sapphire pills, after brushing your teeth. Every time you brush use it. To remove the teeth it is a must. Violet gets depleted when teeth are not doing well. Blue Sapphire will increase the violet color in you.
Basic remedy for any medical complaint
Vitality, Blood Circulation
To retain your stamina and vigor
Nine gems will balance all chakras, harmonizes the functioning of them
Pearl is very effective. It increases the water element in the body. The intestine will be dry, if you are having constipation. Water element is increased by Pearl. Dryness is taken care of by Pearl’s water element.
Combine it with Coral. The coral moves the bowels well.
Loose motion (Diarrhea)
Blue sapphire. Combine with Bach flowers: White chestnut, Cherry plum
When you have a burning sensation in the stomach, especially after eating pickles, then take Pearl pills. It is also good for acidity problems.
Pearl and IBGO (a combination of Diamond, Yellow Sapphire, Emerald and Pearl)
Pearl will reduce the temperature even if it seems to be rising.
Fever didn’t stop
After fever, a person feels dull
Recovery will be speeded up, if Ruby is taken. Even two pills will do.
When marriage is delayed
Pearl and Nine Gems
Have a picture of Rabbit in the couple’s bedroom.
Pearl it is very helpful.
Easy and normal delivery
1. Diamond, Yellow Sapphire and Pearl: this combination makes the foetus grow well. Right through pregnancy this can be given.
2. During the last three days of delivery, Ruby has to be given.
3. Chant “Together Divine Yellow Sapphire”
Heal extra marital affairs
Chicory, Clematis, Crab Apple, (gem remedy) Coral
Have a good relationship with your husband,
Pearl and Emerald are the remedies. Even Yellow Sapphire has to be taken.
For any divorce proceedings
Ruby is essential. You have the thought, “I don’t want to face him”. They won’t come to you again. You will get separated easily.