My main problem of my fibromyalgia (nerves pain due to stress) and that is because of my not having a good relationship with my husband.
But I have discussed each and everything with my husband how we can make our relationship better. He will always tell that he will improve. But, he has never done anything about it.
I am a very honest person, get attached very easily and do everything for others with full heart. But, my husband loves to show off. He spends money on me to show others and my children that he is a very caring husband and loves me a lot.
Because of his nature, I am totally broke. I can’t believe him anymore. He is very selfish and only cares about him. He has no interest in me.
I just have dragged this marriage because of my kids. My boys are 19 and 17. They also understand that our relationship is not good. My kids also tell me to try to be happy and stay busy.
To keep myself happy, I am trying to keep myself busy in so many things, I have started business as well. But, whatever I am doing my husband has no interest in it.
I am trying to detach myself from him also but it’s really difficult, I don’t know, what to do, but still I want true love from him.
What is needed for you to change yourself to him? You only want him.
Ask yourself what is preventing you from getting his love?
Are you blaming within (for your problems)?
What about your judgmental attitude (about yourself) within?
What is in you that is preventing you from getting his love and affection?
Is it your desire to change him?
What is in you that has caused his rejection?
What is in you that has attracted this unloving person (in your life)?
Reflecting on your thoughts and behavior will make you understand your life better.
What do you need to change in yourself?
Did you not anytime ACT (put up a show) anywhere with anybody in the past?
What is that which is hidden in you? What all you had hidden from your parents in your past?
How much love you have for others? Scale each and every love you gave to others? Is it not different with different people?
Chant (gem remedy) PEARL as many times as possible
I have never acted with my own people, whether they are my parents, sisters, brothers, or close friends.
I am always honest with them. I don’t lie as well.
I don’t believe in changing people, I accept everybody as they are.
My only problem is I have expectations on my husband so that we can make our married life better, by spending more time with each other,
He has all the enthusiasm when he meets others. He entertains them like anything but at home he didn’t want to do anything.
He likes parties so I arrange for him, but if I like to spend time with him he should also take some effort for that.
I won’t say he doesn’t love me, but there is no effort in making our lives and relationship cheerful.
Chant “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW”
The Gem remedy PEARL will develop the motherliness in you, which attract people towards you.
The switch words “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW” is so powerful that it will bring tremendous change in you, which in turn will bring the results you want.
Change is a Celebration, let us celebrate it. I have created a “WELCOME CHANGE” CD to bring the changes in ourselves easily.
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Harmony in Relationships
Emerald is the remedy which binds two people together. For husband and wife relationship Emerald is very important.
For harmony Emerald is the remedy.
For any mediation Emerald is the remedy. Even though certain situations are unwelcome we have to reconcile and accept that situation, in such cases take Emerald.
Emerald is one remedy that can establish communication.
“The Emerald chose her”, a case history
It happened in one of my gem remedy class. At that time, it so happened, that one person wanted to have all the remedies. But when she went to the sales counter to buy the remedies she could not get any other remedy except for Emerald.
Finally, she got Emerald and went home. In her bedroom on the side table next to her bed, she kept the remedy. Immediately, on keeping that Emerald there, there was a phone call from her husband, who was separated from her, for nearly 10 years. Immediately she phoned up to me and told me the news.
For any type of transactions, Emerald is to be taken.
For good digestion Emerald is the remedy. For gas problem also Emerald is to be given.
To increase the memory power of the children Emerald is the remedy.
When marriage is delayed
Pearl and Nine Gems
Have a picture of Rabbit in the couple’s bedroom.
Pearl it is very helpful.
Easy and normal delivery
1. Diamond, Yellow Sapphire and Pearl: this combination makes the foetus grow well. Right through pregnancy this can be given.
2. During the last three days of delivery, Ruby has to be given.
3. Chant “Together Divine Yellow Sapphire”
Heal extra marital affairs
Chicory, Clematis, Crab Apple, (gem remedy) Coral
Have a good relationship with your husband,
Pearl and Emerald are the remedies. Even Yellow Sapphire has to be taken.
For any divorce proceedings
Ruby is essential. You have the thought, “I don’t want to face him”. They won’t come to you again. You will get separated easily.