Bring Cheer in Relationships

Vandana

My main problem of my fibromyalgia (nerves pain due to stress) and that is because of my not having a good relationship with my husband.

But I have discussed each and everything with my husband how we can make our relationship better. He will always tell that he will improve. But, he has never done anything about it.

I am a very honest person, get attached very easily and do everything for others with full heart. But, my husband loves to show off. He spends money on me to show others and my children that he is a very caring husband and loves me a lot.

Because of his nature, I am totally broke. I can’t believe him anymore. He is very selfish and only cares about him. He has no interest in me.

I just have dragged this marriage because of my kids. My boys are 19 and 17. They also understand that our relationship is not good. My kids also tell me to try to be happy and stay busy.

To keep myself happy, I am trying to keep myself busy in so many things, I have started business as well. But, whatever I am doing my husband has no interest in it.

I am trying to detach myself from him also but it’s really difficult, I don’t know, what to do, but still I want true love from him.

Naran

What is needed for you to change yourself to him? You only want him.

Ask yourself what is preventing you from getting his love?

Are you blaming within (for your problems)?

What about your judgmental attitude (about yourself) within?

What is in you that is preventing you from getting his love and affection?

Is it your desire to change him?

What is in you that has caused his rejection?

What is in you that has attracted this unloving person (in your life)?

Reflecting on your thoughts and behavior will make you understand your life better.

What do you need to change in yourself?

Did you not anytime ACT (put up a show) anywhere with anybody in the past?

What is that which is hidden in you? What all you had hidden from your parents in your past?

How much love you have for others? Scale each and every love you gave to others? Is it not different with different people?

Reflect.

Chant (gem remedy) PEARL as many times as possible

Vandana

I have never acted with my own people, whether they are my parents, sisters, brothers, or close friends.

I am always honest with them. I don’t lie as well.

I don’t believe in changing people, I accept everybody as they are.

My only problem is I have expectations on my husband so that we can make our married life better, by spending more time with each other,

He has all the enthusiasm when he meets others. He entertains them like anything but at home he didn’t want to do anything.

He likes parties so I arrange for him, but if I like to spend time with him he should also take some effort for that.

I won’t say he doesn’t love me, but there is no effort in making our lives and relationship cheerful.

Naran

Chant “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW”

Explanation

The Gem remedy PEARL will develop the motherliness in you, which attract people towards you.

The switch words “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW” is so powerful that it will bring tremendous change in you, which in turn will bring the results you want.

Change is a Celebration, let us celebrate it.  I have created a “WELCOME CHANGE” CD to bring the changes in ourselves easily.

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Gems vs. Chakras

Chakra	Gem remedy	Color
Basic chakra	Ruby	Red
Hara chakra	Pearl	Orange
Solar plexus	Coral	Yellow
Heart Chakra	Emerald	Green
Throat chakra	Yellow sapphire	Blue

Make your relationships stronger

Diamond

It emits the color indigo.

Saturn and Venus are friends. To escape from the problems of Saturn seek the help of Venus (Diamond).

To form a relationship Emerald is the remedy, while to solidify the relationship or make the relationship stronger Diamond, is the remedy.

Particularly in India, Diamond is given very much importance. Even during the marriage the groom’s side will give Diamond ear-ring or nose pin to the bride as it solidifies the relationship or cements the relationship. In any house, Diamond is a must as it strengthens the relationship.

For boys not yet married

It is a planet or stone for attraction. Whenever a male is not able to get married he has to take Diamond. Because he is not able to attract a female, he is not able to get married. His attracting power is increased by Diamond pills.

To build your charisma Diamond is the remedy. Thus, it is a boon for all actors and actresses.

Hair care

Diamond is the remedy for hair fall. It is not for old people but for the young who have got too much of hair fall these days.

It is also a good remedy for handling dandruff. Diamond along with curry leaves works well for dandruff. Also you can take the Batch flower remedy CRAB APPLE with that combination.

Skin care

Diamond is the very good remedy for skin diseases. For skin diseases Diamond and CRAB APPLE are to be given. Diamond is for beauty.

Eye care

For all eye problems you can take Diamond. If you go to an eye specialist take Diamond and automatically the diagnosis will be right.

Increase your creativity

To get a seat in interior decoration course, which is in great demand, give the student Diamond.

For Fashion designers, interior decorators and beauty parlor specialists, Diamond is very important. So for such persons, if Diamond along with Pearl is given regularly then their creativity will increase.

Taking Care of Your Children

Protection from Cold

Ruby, Pearl: if given regularly children will not get cold. Give these remedies after an attack of cold too.

Running nose

(Bach Flower Remedies) Sweet Chestnut, Walnut, Crab Apple, and (Gem Remedy) Yellow Sapphire

For immunity

Ruby and Pearl

Win competition

Yellow Sapphire, Coral

Children to listen to you

Son or daughter problem with mother; son to come to terms with you and if you want children to listen to you: take Pearl (or pray to moon) and Yellow Sapphire pills. If the child is not listening then it shows there is less motherliness in you. Take Pearl and develop your motherliness.

To increase the memory power of children

Emerald

The son doesn’t stay at home

Blue Sapphire

The Mother’s Care

Naran

Though, PEARL looks white in color, the color emitted by it is orange.

Pearl represents the mind. It also represents the mother (inside us). If children does not listen to the parents means that the motherliness is less in us. So to improve the motherliness we have to take Pearl (remedy).

Pregnancy and Foetus Care

For infertility, Pearl works very well. But before that all your physiological problems has to be addressed first.

For easy and normal delivery of the baby, give Diamond, Yellow sapphire and Pearl. During the last three days before the delivery, Ruby has to be given. Do not give Ruby earlier because it will break the pregnancy, as the key word of Ruby is “Break”.

If the child has to grow well, give Diamond, Yellow Sapphire and Pearl, which will make the development of the foetus well. This combination can be given throughout the pregnancy.

When you are visiting the doctor for Gynecological problems take Pearl. Along with Pearl you can also take Emerald. Then, the doctor will diagnose rightly.

Relationship Care

To have a good relationship with your spouse, Pearl is the remedy.  To improve the relationship along with Pearl we have to take Yellow Sapphire (Jupiter) pills too.

Self-Care

If you find unenthusiastic take Pearl.

The oratorical skill can be developed very easily with Pearl.

To become popular you can take Pearl.

Creativity can be improved very easily with Pearl.

Health Care

Whenever there is severe throat problem you can take Pearl.

When there is fever too, Pearl can be given. When the temperature of the patient rises, if we give Pearl (pills or water) to the patient, then the temperature will come down.

When we have a constipation problem then our colon and intestine will be dry. Pearl can be very effective here as it increases the water element of the body. Thus, dryness is taken care of and the patient is able to pass the motion easily.

It is also very good for acidity and burning sensation in the stomach.

For piles, you have to add Red Coral to Pearl.

Take Care of Your SELF-Development

Meditation

(Bach Flower Remedy) Clematis and (Gem Remedy) Amethyst

To become optimistic

Diamond

Though you feel lesser enthusiastic

Then Pearl is the remedy to bring out from you, joy and enthusiasm about life.

You are an angry person

Blue Sapphire

You don’t know how to handle a criticizing or fault-finding person

Yellow Sapphire

When you have dishonest, deceitful and lying people around you

Yellow Sapphire

If you want respect

Ruby

My spouse is a stingy person and to make him/her flexible

Yellow Sapphire

My spouse snores

The throat pipe of the concerned person is constricted. At the time of sleeping, they have to be given: (Bach Flower Remedies) Elm, White Chestnut, and (Gem Remedy) Yellow Sapphire

Cure Your Cold and Allergies

Breathing problems

Inhale red and orange colors from Sun

Cold with running nose

Pearl

Throat pain

Yellow Sapphire

Sore throat with running nose

(Bach Flower Remedies) Walnut, Crab Apple, White chestnut, and (Gem Remedy) Yellow sapphire

Whenever there is a severe throat problem

You can take Pearl, Yellow Sapphire

Sneezing and allergy cough

White Chestnut, Walnut, Crab Apple, Yellow Sapphire

Dust allergy

Yellow Sapphire

Any allergic condition

Yellow Sapphire

Allergic to smell

Yellow Sapphire, Walnut

Chronic Illness and Women’s Issues

(As a supportive measure)

Paralysis

Coral, Emerald and Nine Gems

Piles

Pearl and Coral

Dizziness, Vertigo, Urinary in continents

Blue Sapphire

Sciatica

Nine Gems and Blue Sapphire

Frozen shoulders

Coral, Emerald

Sluggish liver

Coral

Rectify the menstrual problems

Perl and Coral

For any gynaecology problem

While visiting the doctor, take Pearl. In addition, take Emerald with you, so that the doctor is able to diagnose correctly.

Instructions to use Gem Remedies

Using Gem Remedies

You can do one of the following:

1.       Chant the name of the remedy.

2.       You can keep the picture of the remedies in your pocket. Download them from internet or the picture is available in the Bach Flower centre).

3.       Likewise you can do the same for the planet referred by the gem stone.

4.       Daily pray to the Gem stones or the planets represented by them.

5.       You can also write their names daily in a notebook for certain no of times.

6.       Write the names of these gem remedies in a slip of paper and carry the paper always with you. Look at it now and then.

7.       While sleeping, keep the paper under the pillow.

All these techniques are quite effective. However, for chronic life situations and long-standing problems, you need to take the remedies in the form of pills, for better and quick recovery. You can buy the pills from the centre.

How long and how many times to chant?

Till you get what you want. Or you can stop when you come out of the present (state of mind)

Instructions for chanting gem remedies

Just repeat the remedy name, for example, ‘PEARL’ any number of times, whenever possible. Repeating the name of the remedy is chanting.

Combining remedies from different healing methods

Both Gem remedies and Bach Flower Remedies can be combined – both in pills form and in chanting. In general you can combine remedies from different healing methods in the form of chanting. They work like Switch Words then.

Writing the combination in a notebook

You can write (in multiples of) 21 times/day in a notebook for (multiples of) 21 days.

Preparing remedy water

Hold a glass of water. Chant the remedy name, for example RUBY, for 100 times. The Ruby water is ready now.

You can sprinkle the water at home/office or to drink the water yourself or give to others.

Create an atmosphere of remedies

Take the required remedies, each 3 pills as a combination in a glass of tumbler. Keep it where you want healing to happen. The next day, thank the remedies. And again keep fresh remedied water.

Taking pills – instructions

1.       Buy the Remedy pills from the centre.

2.       Put pills from each remedy in a bottle of 300 ml water. Allow them to dissolve.

3.       Take the remedied water in small sips, throughout the day after shaking the bottle vigorously for a few times, when you take.

4.       Every one or two hours, take a sip from the bottle.  

Using circle technique

1.       Write the name of the person(s) or the situation to be healed in a piece of paper.

2.       Draw a circle around the name/situation.

3.       Draw one more concentric circle.

4.       In between each gap between circles, write one remedy.

5.       Keep the paper with you.

6.       See it in the morning and evening

Healing others

For healing others, take a piece of paper, write the name of the person and place the photo of the required gem remedy over that.

Chanting for others

Can I chant switch words to help others? Yes. Write the name of the person in a piece of paper. Keep it in the left hand. Place your right hand on the left hand and chant the required gem remedy name(s).

Can I wear the stones in the form of ornaments?

Do not wear all these stones. Every stone has a specific purpose. Diamond and Emerald can be worn by all. Ruby must be used very carefully. In a family Ruby should not come because the key word is – break. Ruby should not be worn in the body permanently. Once in a while if you wear it is ok.

Don’t buy stones as they are expensive

All the gem remedies can be kept as pictures. Please do not buy gems as it will cost you a minimum of ten thousand rupees and that also you should not wear it continuously. So why should invest so much money.

Let us say, you are in debts. An astrologer tells you that guru is not in a good position. So you wear Yellow Sapphire. However, if you wear the gem Yellow Sapphire continuously your debts will increase. 

Taking Care of Special Children

Treating AHD

Attention hyperactive deficit syndrome: (Bach Flower Remedies) Water Violet, Oak, Chestnut Bud, Vervain and Rescue Remedy, along with the Gem Remedy Moonstone.

Taking care of autistic children

Autistic children as a background remedy, when they lose control and to restrict their behavior:

1.       Chant Blue Sapphire and then take Nine Gems.

2.       Chant the Vallabam Gajaananam Eka Thantham mantra also.

3.       Give Bach Flower Remedies Water Violet, Oak, Chestnut bud, Clematis, and Larch. Include Nine Gems as well. The first three remedies will work for hyperactive children. They need medication for at least for one year.

4.       Bach Flowers Water Violet, Oak, Chestnut bud and (gem remedy) Moon stone (very important) and (Bach Flower) Rescue Remedy – is good for sleep. If you use Pearl then you don’t need Moonstone. Moonstone works on the nervous system movement.

Hyper active children restless – to keep them calm

Blue Sapphire, Moon stone

Hyperactive child, a case history

Raji:  “My son had a fracture. He is very hyperactive”

Naran: Around 5.30 in the morning, ask him to do sun gazing for one week. It will reduce his hyperactive nature. If it is not possible to do it in the morning, let him do it in the evening.

You can also give him, “Water violet, Oak, Chestnut bud, Cerato, Rescue Remedy and Moonstone”.

Raji’s Mother: “He is 6-years old. He hurts himself and others without realizing it”.

Naran: Give Oak for any constant movement, as hyperactive children can’t keep quiet.  Give it for 6 months. Gem remedy Moonstone will calm them down and slow down their activities.