My main problem of my fibromyalgia (nerves pain due to stress) and that is because of my not having a good relationship with my husband.
But I have discussed each and everything with my husband how we can make our relationship better. He will always tell that he will improve. But, he has never done anything about it.
I am a very honest person, get attached very easily and do everything for others with full heart. But, my husband loves to show off. He spends money on me to show others and my children that he is a very caring husband and loves me a lot.
Because of his nature, I am totally broke. I can’t believe him anymore. He is very selfish and only cares about him. He has no interest in me.
I just have dragged this marriage because of my kids. My boys are 19 and 17. They also understand that our relationship is not good. My kids also tell me to try to be happy and stay busy.
To keep myself happy, I am trying to keep myself busy in so many things, I have started business as well. But, whatever I am doing my husband has no interest in it.
I am trying to detach myself from him also but it’s really difficult, I don’t know, what to do, but still I want true love from him.
What is needed for you to change yourself to him? You only want him.
Ask yourself what is preventing you from getting his love?
Are you blaming within (for your problems)?
What about your judgmental attitude (about yourself) within?
What is in you that is preventing you from getting his love and affection?
Is it your desire to change him?
What is in you that has caused his rejection?
What is in you that has attracted this unloving person (in your life)?
Reflecting on your thoughts and behavior will make you understand your life better.
What do you need to change in yourself?
Did you not anytime ACT (put up a show) anywhere with anybody in the past?
What is that which is hidden in you? What all you had hidden from your parents in your past?
How much love you have for others? Scale each and every love you gave to others? Is it not different with different people?
Chant (gem remedy) PEARL as many times as possible
I have never acted with my own people, whether they are my parents, sisters, brothers, or close friends.
I am always honest with them. I don’t lie as well.
I don’t believe in changing people, I accept everybody as they are.
My only problem is I have expectations on my husband so that we can make our married life better, by spending more time with each other,
He has all the enthusiasm when he meets others. He entertains them like anything but at home he didn’t want to do anything.
He likes parties so I arrange for him, but if I like to spend time with him he should also take some effort for that.
I won’t say he doesn’t love me, but there is no effort in making our lives and relationship cheerful.
Chant “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW”
The Gem remedy PEARL will develop the motherliness in you, which attract people towards you.
The switch words “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW” is so powerful that it will bring tremendous change in you, which in turn will bring the results you want.
Change is a Celebration, let us celebrate it. I have created a “WELCOME CHANGE” CD to bring the changes in ourselves easily.
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Though, PEARL looks white in color, the color emitted by it is orange.
Pearl represents the mind. It also represents the mother (inside us). If children does not listen to the parents means that the motherliness is less in us. So to improve the motherliness we have to take Pearl (remedy).
Pregnancy and Foetus Care
For infertility, Pearl works very well. But before that all your physiological problems has to be addressed first.
For easy and normal delivery of the baby, give Diamond, Yellow sapphire and Pearl. During the last three days before the delivery, Ruby has to be given. Do not give Ruby earlier because it will break the pregnancy, as the key word of Ruby is “Break”.
If the child has to grow well, give Diamond, Yellow Sapphire and Pearl, which will make the development of the foetus well. This combination can be given throughout the pregnancy.
When you are visiting the doctor for Gynecological problems take Pearl. Along with Pearl you can also take Emerald. Then, the doctor will diagnose rightly.
To have a good relationship with your spouse, Pearl is the remedy. To improve the relationship along with Pearl we have to take Yellow Sapphire (Jupiter) pills too.
If you find unenthusiastic take Pearl.
The oratorical skill can be developed very easily with Pearl.
To become popular you can take Pearl.
Creativity can be improved very easily with Pearl.
Whenever there is severe throat problem you can take Pearl.
When there is fever too, Pearl can be given. When the temperature of the patient rises, if we give Pearl (pills or water) to the patient, then the temperature will come down.
When we have a constipation problem then our colon and intestine will be dry. Pearl can be very effective here as it increases the water element of the body. Thus, dryness is taken care of and the patient is able to pass the motion easily.
It is also very good for acidity and burning sensation in the stomach.
For piles, you have to add Red Coral to Pearl.
Nine Gems and Yellow Sapphire
Knees are connected with parents – Left knee for mother and right knee for father. If you a have a knee problem it may mean that you may have a conflict with your parent or repeating the mistakes of the parent. Whenever you have a knee problem, prostrate mentally to your father and mother and say thanks to them.
All types of headache except for headaches created by your better-half J
Lower back pain
Nine Gems and Yellow Sapphire
During movement you get a joint pain
Coral, Yellow sapphire and Nine Gems
(Bach Flower Remedies) Rock Water, Hornbeam, Walnut, Cherry plum, as well as (Gem Remedies) Coral and Diamond
Like for example, shoulder joints and knee joints: Yellow Sapphire and Nine Gems.
For correcting the eye and for any bone disorders
Tooth problem or gum issues
Gargle with water filled with Blue Sapphire pills, after brushing your teeth. Every time you brush use it. To remove the teeth it is a must. Violet gets depleted when teeth are not doing well. Blue Sapphire will increase the violet color in you.
(From Multi Dimensional Healing June 27, 2009 Workshop)
Even chanting the names has an effect. Don’t buy rings, but take pills instead.
Life Situational Remedies
|Life Situations||Gem Remedies|
|Any head ache||Blue Sapphire|
|For low back pain||Nine gems and Yellow Sapphire|
|Sciatica||Nine Gems and Blue Sapphire|
|For communication and conciliation;If you haven’t received any communication from somebody (say for example after betrothal no communication for two days)||EmeraldEmerald will establish communication|
|Before going to dentist||Blue Sapphire and Mimulus (fear).|
|Appointment with an eye doctor. Take the remedies so you will be diagnosed properly.||Ruby and Diamond|
|Basic remedy for any medical complaint||Sun (Ruby)|
|Meet an ENT specialist||Ruby and emerald|
|Surgery was suggested to you. You would like to have a successful surgery.||Ruby and coral (Sun and Mars)|
|For easy and normal delivery||Sun, Venus and JupiterTogether Divine Yellow sapphire (Jupiter)|
|Before going to go a physician||Sun (red), Jupiter (blue) mercury (green)|
Nine gems and Yellow Sapphire
Knees are connected with parents – Left knee for mother and right knee for father. If you a have a knee problem it may mean that you may have a conflict of your parent or repeating the mistakes of the parent. Whenever you have a knee problem, prostrate mentally to your father and mother and say thanks to them. For more details on Mind-Body Relationship, check out the web site: www.naranheal.com