My main problem of my fibromyalgia (nerves pain due to stress) and that is because of my not having a good relationship with my husband.
But I have discussed each and everything with my husband how we can make our relationship better. He will always tell that he will improve. But, he has never done anything about it.
I am a very honest person, get attached very easily and do everything for others with full heart. But, my husband loves to show off. He spends money on me to show others and my children that he is a very caring husband and loves me a lot.
Because of his nature, I am totally broke. I can’t believe him anymore. He is very selfish and only cares about him. He has no interest in me.
I just have dragged this marriage because of my kids. My boys are 19 and 17. They also understand that our relationship is not good. My kids also tell me to try to be happy and stay busy.
To keep myself happy, I am trying to keep myself busy in so many things, I have started business as well. But, whatever I am doing my husband has no interest in it.
I am trying to detach myself from him also but it’s really difficult, I don’t know, what to do, but still I want true love from him.
What is needed for you to change yourself to him? You only want him.
Ask yourself what is preventing you from getting his love?
Are you blaming within (for your problems)?
What about your judgmental attitude (about yourself) within?
What is in you that is preventing you from getting his love and affection?
Is it your desire to change him?
What is in you that has caused his rejection?
What is in you that has attracted this unloving person (in your life)?
Reflecting on your thoughts and behavior will make you understand your life better.
What do you need to change in yourself?
Did you not anytime ACT (put up a show) anywhere with anybody in the past?
What is that which is hidden in you? What all you had hidden from your parents in your past?
How much love you have for others? Scale each and every love you gave to others? Is it not different with different people?
Chant (gem remedy) PEARL as many times as possible
I have never acted with my own people, whether they are my parents, sisters, brothers, or close friends.
I am always honest with them. I don’t lie as well.
I don’t believe in changing people, I accept everybody as they are.
My only problem is I have expectations on my husband so that we can make our married life better, by spending more time with each other,
He has all the enthusiasm when he meets others. He entertains them like anything but at home he didn’t want to do anything.
He likes parties so I arrange for him, but if I like to spend time with him he should also take some effort for that.
I won’t say he doesn’t love me, but there is no effort in making our lives and relationship cheerful.
Chant “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW”
The Gem remedy PEARL will develop the motherliness in you, which attract people towards you.
The switch words “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW” is so powerful that it will bring tremendous change in you, which in turn will bring the results you want.
Change is a Celebration, let us celebrate it. I have created a “WELCOME CHANGE” CD to bring the changes in ourselves easily.
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Using Gem Remedies
You can do one of the following:
1. Chant the name of the remedy.
2. You can keep the picture of the remedies in your pocket. Download them from internet or the picture is available in the Bach Flower centre).
3. Likewise you can do the same for the planet referred by the gem stone.
4. Daily pray to the Gem stones or the planets represented by them.
5. You can also write their names daily in a notebook for certain no of times.
6. Write the names of these gem remedies in a slip of paper and carry the paper always with you. Look at it now and then.
7. While sleeping, keep the paper under the pillow.
All these techniques are quite effective. However, for chronic life situations and long-standing problems, you need to take the remedies in the form of pills, for better and quick recovery. You can buy the pills from the centre.
How long and how many times to chant?
Till you get what you want. Or you can stop when you come out of the present (state of mind)
Instructions for chanting gem remedies
Just repeat the remedy name, for example, ‘PEARL’ any number of times, whenever possible. Repeating the name of the remedy is chanting.
Combining remedies from different healing methods
Both Gem remedies and Bach Flower Remedies can be combined – both in pills form and in chanting. In general you can combine remedies from different healing methods in the form of chanting. They work like Switch Words then.
Writing the combination in a notebook
You can write (in multiples of) 21 times/day in a notebook for (multiples of) 21 days.
Preparing remedy water
Hold a glass of water. Chant the remedy name, for example RUBY, for 100 times. The Ruby water is ready now.
You can sprinkle the water at home/office or to drink the water yourself or give to others.
Create an atmosphere of remedies
Take the required remedies, each 3 pills as a combination in a glass of tumbler. Keep it where you want healing to happen. The next day, thank the remedies. And again keep fresh remedied water.
Taking pills – instructions
1. Buy the Remedy pills from the centre.
2. Put pills from each remedy in a bottle of 300 ml water. Allow them to dissolve.
3. Take the remedied water in small sips, throughout the day after shaking the bottle vigorously for a few times, when you take.
4. Every one or two hours, take a sip from the bottle.
Using circle technique
1. Write the name of the person(s) or the situation to be healed in a piece of paper.
2. Draw a circle around the name/situation.
3. Draw one more concentric circle.
4. In between each gap between circles, write one remedy.
5. Keep the paper with you.
6. See it in the morning and evening
For healing others, take a piece of paper, write the name of the person and place the photo of the required gem remedy over that.
Chanting for others
Can I chant switch words to help others? Yes. Write the name of the person in a piece of paper. Keep it in the left hand. Place your right hand on the left hand and chant the required gem remedy name(s).
Can I wear the stones in the form of ornaments?
Do not wear all these stones. Every stone has a specific purpose. Diamond and Emerald can be worn by all. Ruby must be used very carefully. In a family Ruby should not come because the key word is – break. Ruby should not be worn in the body permanently. Once in a while if you wear it is ok.
Don’t buy stones as they are expensive
All the gem remedies can be kept as pictures. Please do not buy gems as it will cost you a minimum of ten thousand rupees and that also you should not wear it continuously. So why should invest so much money.
Let us say, you are in debts. An astrologer tells you that guru is not in a good position. So you wear Yellow Sapphire. However, if you wear the gem Yellow Sapphire continuously your debts will increase.