Guests need not be angels

Madhu

One of my cousin and his wife had come to my house for some purpose and they plan to stay here for many days. I know guests should be treated like a god. But they are very egoistic, ordering me what to cook, choosy about what they eat and interfering in every issue.

My total house seems to be like a hotel. I don’t know how to express my mental state. No privacy to watch TV, doing work, going somewhere etc.

Pls give me a solution so that they shift from my house ASAP without any misunderstanding. I called WOLF but nothing happened.

Naran

Chant “RUBY, CENTAURY, WILLOW” over a glass of water and drink that water.

Write RUBY in a paper and keep it in the room they are staying.

Madhu

Its wonder! I just chanted for 2 days. My cousin and his wife today shifted somewhere else nearby and by divine will there is no misunderstanding.

Explanation

Ruby is a Gem Remedy. Break is the keyword for it. More explanation on this Gem Remedy: https://healbygems.wordpress.com/2012/12/29/master-of-recovery/

Centaury and Willow are Bach Flower Remedies.

Centaury person can’t say no as he is fearful of disapproval.

He will develop resentment against those people (usually CHICORY and VINE type people), who uses them. For resentment, Willow is prescribed.

How do we learn to say a Hard ‘NO’: http://healbybachflowers.wordpress.com/2009/03/28/learn-to-say-%E2%80%98no%E2%80%99-to-loans/

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The Mother’s Care

Naran

Though, PEARL looks white in color, the color emitted by it is orange.

Pearl represents the mind. It also represents the mother (inside us). If children does not listen to the parents means that the motherliness is less in us. So to improve the motherliness we have to take Pearl (remedy).

Pregnancy and Foetus Care

For infertility, Pearl works very well. But before that all your physiological problems has to be addressed first.

For easy and normal delivery of the baby, give Diamond, Yellow sapphire and Pearl. During the last three days before the delivery, Ruby has to be given. Do not give Ruby earlier because it will break the pregnancy, as the key word of Ruby is “Break”.

If the child has to grow well, give Diamond, Yellow Sapphire and Pearl, which will make the development of the foetus well. This combination can be given throughout the pregnancy.

When you are visiting the doctor for Gynecological problems take Pearl. Along with Pearl you can also take Emerald. Then, the doctor will diagnose rightly.

Relationship Care

To have a good relationship with your spouse, Pearl is the remedy.  To improve the relationship along with Pearl we have to take Yellow Sapphire (Jupiter) pills too.

Self-Care

If you find unenthusiastic take Pearl.

The oratorical skill can be developed very easily with Pearl.

To become popular you can take Pearl.

Creativity can be improved very easily with Pearl.

Health Care

Whenever there is severe throat problem you can take Pearl.

When there is fever too, Pearl can be given. When the temperature of the patient rises, if we give Pearl (pills or water) to the patient, then the temperature will come down.

When we have a constipation problem then our colon and intestine will be dry. Pearl can be very effective here as it increases the water element of the body. Thus, dryness is taken care of and the patient is able to pass the motion easily.

It is also very good for acidity and burning sensation in the stomach.

For piles, you have to add Red Coral to Pearl.

Solving Your Day-to-Day Problems

Naran

First you need clarity

We should get clarity to solve the problems. MOONSTONE gives you that. Peace will come. It works like Bach Flower CERATO and therefore you don’t ask opinion from others as you can take the decision by yourself and the solution lies within you.

The problem is too big to handle and you have a starting problem

Therefore, you don’t know how to proceed. Take RUBY then you will know where and how to start.

Then break the problem into small chunks

You have to break a big problem into small chunks, so that you can handle them individually and one by one: RUBY

May be it is an unsolvable problem

There is a problem you don’t know how to solve it: RUBY

In case you need necessary authority to manage it

RUBY

Instructions to use Gem Remedies

Using Gem Remedies

You can do one of the following:

1.       Chant the name of the remedy.

2.       You can keep the picture of the remedies in your pocket. Download them from internet or the picture is available in the Bach Flower centre).

3.       Likewise you can do the same for the planet referred by the gem stone.

4.       Daily pray to the Gem stones or the planets represented by them.

5.       You can also write their names daily in a notebook for certain no of times.

6.       Write the names of these gem remedies in a slip of paper and carry the paper always with you. Look at it now and then.

7.       While sleeping, keep the paper under the pillow.

All these techniques are quite effective. However, for chronic life situations and long-standing problems, you need to take the remedies in the form of pills, for better and quick recovery. You can buy the pills from the centre.

How long and how many times to chant?

Till you get what you want. Or you can stop when you come out of the present (state of mind)

Instructions for chanting gem remedies

Just repeat the remedy name, for example, ‘PEARL’ any number of times, whenever possible. Repeating the name of the remedy is chanting.

Combining remedies from different healing methods

Both Gem remedies and Bach Flower Remedies can be combined – both in pills form and in chanting. In general you can combine remedies from different healing methods in the form of chanting. They work like Switch Words then.

Writing the combination in a notebook

You can write (in multiples of) 21 times/day in a notebook for (multiples of) 21 days.

Preparing remedy water

Hold a glass of water. Chant the remedy name, for example RUBY, for 100 times. The Ruby water is ready now.

You can sprinkle the water at home/office or to drink the water yourself or give to others.

Create an atmosphere of remedies

Take the required remedies, each 3 pills as a combination in a glass of tumbler. Keep it where you want healing to happen. The next day, thank the remedies. And again keep fresh remedied water.

Taking pills – instructions

1.       Buy the Remedy pills from the centre.

2.       Put pills from each remedy in a bottle of 300 ml water. Allow them to dissolve.

3.       Take the remedied water in small sips, throughout the day after shaking the bottle vigorously for a few times, when you take.

4.       Every one or two hours, take a sip from the bottle.  

Using circle technique

1.       Write the name of the person(s) or the situation to be healed in a piece of paper.

2.       Draw a circle around the name/situation.

3.       Draw one more concentric circle.

4.       In between each gap between circles, write one remedy.

5.       Keep the paper with you.

6.       See it in the morning and evening

Healing others

For healing others, take a piece of paper, write the name of the person and place the photo of the required gem remedy over that.

Chanting for others

Can I chant switch words to help others? Yes. Write the name of the person in a piece of paper. Keep it in the left hand. Place your right hand on the left hand and chant the required gem remedy name(s).

Can I wear the stones in the form of ornaments?

Do not wear all these stones. Every stone has a specific purpose. Diamond and Emerald can be worn by all. Ruby must be used very carefully. In a family Ruby should not come because the key word is – break. Ruby should not be worn in the body permanently. Once in a while if you wear it is ok.

Don’t buy stones as they are expensive

All the gem remedies can be kept as pictures. Please do not buy gems as it will cost you a minimum of ten thousand rupees and that also you should not wear it continuously. So why should invest so much money.

Let us say, you are in debts. An astrologer tells you that guru is not in a good position. So you wear Yellow Sapphire. However, if you wear the gem Yellow Sapphire continuously your debts will increase. 

Heal your relationships through gem remedies

Communication, mediation and reconciliation

When you want to make reconciliation with somebody and to re-establish a relationship: Emerald

If you haven’t received any communication from somebody (say for example after betrothal no communication for two days)    

Emerald: it will establish communication

Love pangs

Chicory, Coral

Immoral behavior

If there is immoral behaviour or infatuation is in a person, then it means salt content is more. Nsatrum.Mur 1 cm every week once, will remove infatuation. Even the gem remedy Coral can remove it.

Infatuation

You might say, “I find there is a mismatch in their relationship”. Why the other person is unduly influenced by their lover. If you give the Bach Flower Remedy Walnut, it will break the relationship, if it is unwanted. It is a link breaker.

In moment of his weakness, he would have accepted the love offer. If the girl is not good, give Walnut to the boy, he will come out of it. Also, add the gem remedy Coral to Walnut. If it is infatuation, both of them will come out of the relationship. They would have been thinking it is true love. If it’s not required, they will break out of it. If they are destined to marry, then it will happen as one has to undergo certain experiences. We can’t do anything about it.

Thus, for infatuation gem remedy Coral and Bach Flower Walnut will do the necessary healing.

Attract loving people

To attract only loving people: Holly, (gem remedy) Kunzite. Kunzite will open up the Heart chakra. Keyword for Kunzite is compassion. It’s a very costly stone somewhere between 5 to 10 thousand rupees. In addition, it is very difficult to get the right stone and it is rarely available in USA. But this is available as pills in the Bach Flower Study Centre, Chennai.

Relationships: improve, combine and form

Emerald: to form a relationship, it is the remedy. To solidify the relationship, Diamond is required. That’s why in Indian culture, Diamond is given importance. It builds the relationship and strengthens it.

For girls who are not married yet

Coral and Emerald

For guys who are not married yet

Diamond and Emerald