Bring Cheer in Relationships
My main problem of my fibromyalgia (nerves pain due to stress) and that is because of my not having a good relationship with my husband.
But I have discussed each and everything with my husband how we can make our relationship better. He will always tell that he will improve. But, he has never done anything about it.
I am a very honest person, get attached very easily and do everything for others with full heart. But, my husband loves to show off. He spends money on me to show others and my children that he is a very caring husband and loves me a lot.
Because of his nature, I am totally broke. I can’t believe him anymore. He is very selfish and only cares about him. He has no interest in me.
I just have dragged this marriage because of my kids. My boys are 19 and 17. They also understand that our relationship is not good. My kids also tell me to try to be happy and stay busy.
To keep myself happy, I am trying to keep myself busy in so many things, I have started business as well. But, whatever I am doing my husband has no interest in it.
I am trying to detach myself from him also but it’s really difficult, I don’t know, what to do, but still I want true love from him.
What is needed for you to change yourself to him? You only want him.
Ask yourself what is preventing you from getting his love?
Are you blaming within (for your problems)?
What about your judgmental attitude (about yourself) within?
What is in you that is preventing you from getting his love and affection?
Is it your desire to change him?
What is in you that has caused his rejection?
What is in you that has attracted this unloving person (in your life)?
Reflecting on your thoughts and behavior will make you understand your life better.
What do you need to change in yourself?
Did you not anytime ACT (put up a show) anywhere with anybody in the past?
What is that which is hidden in you? What all you had hidden from your parents in your past?
How much love you have for others? Scale each and every love you gave to others? Is it not different with different people?
Chant (gem remedy) PEARL as many times as possible
I have never acted with my own people, whether they are my parents, sisters, brothers, or close friends.
I am always honest with them. I don’t lie as well.
I don’t believe in changing people, I accept everybody as they are.
My only problem is I have expectations on my husband so that we can make our married life better, by spending more time with each other,
He has all the enthusiasm when he meets others. He entertains them like anything but at home he didn’t want to do anything.
He likes parties so I arrange for him, but if I like to spend time with him he should also take some effort for that.
I won’t say he doesn’t love me, but there is no effort in making our lives and relationship cheerful.
Chant “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW”
The Gem remedy PEARL will develop the motherliness in you, which attract people towards you.
The switch words “TOGETHER CHANGE NOW” is so powerful that it will bring tremendous change in you, which in turn will bring the results you want.
Change is a Celebration, let us celebrate it. I have created a “WELCOME CHANGE” CD to bring the changes in ourselves easily.
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Taking Care of Special Children
Attention hyperactive deficit syndrome: (Bach Flower Remedies) Water Violet, Oak, Chestnut Bud, Vervain and Rescue Remedy, along with the Gem Remedy Moonstone.
Taking care of autistic children
Autistic children as a background remedy, when they lose control and to restrict their behavior:
1. Chant Blue Sapphire and then take Nine Gems.
2. Chant the Vallabam Gajaananam Eka Thantham mantra also.
3. Give Bach Flower Remedies Water Violet, Oak, Chestnut bud, Clematis, and Larch. Include Nine Gems as well. The first three remedies will work for hyperactive children. They need medication for at least for one year.
4. Bach Flowers Water Violet, Oak, Chestnut bud and (gem remedy) Moon stone (very important) and (Bach Flower) Rescue Remedy – is good for sleep. If you use Pearl then you don’t need Moonstone. Moonstone works on the nervous system movement.
Hyper active children restless – to keep them calm
Blue Sapphire, Moon stone
Hyperactive child, a case history
Raji: “My son had a fracture. He is very hyperactive”
Naran: Around 5.30 in the morning, ask him to do sun gazing for one week. It will reduce his hyperactive nature. If it is not possible to do it in the morning, let him do it in the evening.
You can also give him, “Water violet, Oak, Chestnut bud, Cerato, Rescue Remedy and Moonstone”.
Raji’s Mother: “He is 6-years old. He hurts himself and others without realizing it”.
Naran: Give Oak for any constant movement, as hyperactive children can’t keep quiet. Give it for 6 months. Gem remedy Moonstone will calm them down and slow down their activities.